A Graduate

You know how you can think back to early days with your partner and recall certain moments so clearly as one of those things that “made you fall in love” with him or her? I remember when we had just started dating, my now-husband noted how his son – a youngster at the time –…

This is Important

I tend to avoid posting stuff in my blog that isn’t all about me me me, but this is important. And it is about me in a small way. The thing that’s letting you read my post right now – the internet – is in need of protection. If we do not secure an open…

The Allure of Geographic Solutions

For most of my life, I’ve had the notion that if I could just go away by myself for a little while, things would be better. I would lose the weight I need to lose. I would heal my wounds and get healthy. I would read the books I want to read, write the books…

Helping a friend

One of my oldest and dearest friends suffered a series of tragedies today when his apartment was destroyed in a fire. Please consider contributing to the GoFundMe campaign I set up to help him out. http://www.gofundme.com/andrewrothkin From the campaign site: My dear friend, Andrew Rothkin, is laying in a hospital bed suffering from burns and…

Midlife

I celebrated my 45th birthday last week. It was quite pleasant. My husband, my kids and I went to see the final installation of The Hobbit in a lovely historic cinema and enjoyed dinner at the Irish restaurant where we almost always celebrate me-related milestones. Being Irish is a big part of my identification of…

Gratitudes 11 – 30

So it’s officially mid-December and I still haven’t completed my 30 Days of Gratitude from November. Time to knock ‘em out, list-style. 11. Lists 12. Cinnamon tea 13. Reliable transportation 14. Electric light 15. Second sight 16. Amazing powers of observation 17. Music 18. Silence 19. Science 20. Books and Theater 21. Christmas lights 22.…

A Year Ago Today

A brief break from the gratitude posts. A Year Ago Today December 2, 2013 was a Monday.  We’d bought pizza for dinner since Mondays can be such a hassle and we watched an episode of MythBusters on Netflix in the basement. We hadn’t done that for ages; it was fun and reminded me of when…

#10 Daddy

Gratitude #10 – Daddy There are so many reasons I am grateful for my dad. Here are some favorites… One of the very best things about my dad is that for my entire life, I have known that no matter what, I can depend on him. He will *always* be there for me. By the…

#9 Sumi

Gratitude #9 – Sumi When my husband and I became partners, I gained a lot more than just a spouse. Along with The Buddhist came a son, a daughter, a cat, a rabbit, a snake, and more tangible personal property than any human should ever own. I am very grateful for everything listed except the…

#8 Librarians

Gratitude #8 – Librarians I am so grateful for librarians. I love them. They’re like the superheroes of information. And for libraries. In a lot of ways, you can judge a culture by its libraries. Does the citizenry have unfettered access to books and information? Are both men and women allowed to visit them? Can…